Spirits Speaking from the Heart at Tranquil Spirit.

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Spirit Answers to Visitors' Questions during March and April 2006

This page will be revised bi-monthly.

The following are Hai's and other spirits' responses to miscellaneous questions recently posed by visitors to this web site or by personal visitors to our home. If you would like to ask a general question please complete the Question Form or post it in one of the Web Board's forums. Please do not use this form for personal questions relating to your own specific circumstances/issues. It is ok to use the form for questions which would be equally relevant to other people. If you have a question of a more personal nature please see the Consultations Page. Alternatively, you can post your question on the Web Board.

Q: I know someone who had a lovely angelic experience but because she's not experience this again she now feels unhappy because she feels she is no longer worthy of the love of the angels.

Hai: No this is the wrong way to view things, a very wrong way to view things. There may be times in your life when we are able to connect with you in a way for you to experience a particularly strong contact with us. This is the case both with angels or other spirits.

Hai smiles and deviates for a moment. He is obviously listening to Davia (spirit gatekeeper) in the background. He continues to smile and says:

Hai: Davia says you must remember that angels are 'ten a penny'.

When we've finished laughing Hai continues:

Hai: So you may have times in your life when you can connect with us and have a beautiful experience. And we also, with you, have beautiful experience. But this cannot happen on a daily basis; this cannot be the norm for you, it is exceptional. Therefore you should not expect such an exceptional experience all the time. You must not become attached to it. You must not grow fond of it. You have your life to live on the earth plane and if you had daily experiences of intimate contact with angels then the question would be; are you on the earth plane?

Therefore, you should not expect to have these intimate experiences all the time. You should treasure and value them as they occur, but recognise that they are not the norm for you; they are not to be expected on a regular basis in your life. Therefore, when they do not occur regularly you should attach no significance to this. You should not think you have been cut off, that you have been removed, that you have been deprived. You must see these experiences as truly exceptional, as truly unique, yes, but not to value them to the point of expecting them all the time and jumping to conclusions that something is wrong if you do not experience them. This is error.

Q: But is it possible though to strengthen the connection through meditation to bring the angels close?

Hai: This is not a good way to go, Jane, for this shows attachment to the experience. You can, by all means, meditate and be open to experiences and you may develop contact with other spirits, with your guides, but you should not prejudge and expect a particular quality of connection; this is what I refer to. You must not expect a particular quality of experience, of connection so that even if you do establish contact you think, "this contact was not like last time, not as good as last time; something is wrong." You follow my point?

So you must advise this person to be more philosophical, to be more detached from the experiences that they are seeking. They must be calmer, for their value lies not in the nature of the contact that they can establish with ourselves or with angels or with anyone else. The nature of their worth, their value, lies within themselves as they are. Even with all their weaknesses and frailties and (smiling) warts. Even as they are, this is their value and they should not look to strengthen their value in any other way.

This we feel is important to put out on your Internet. For it is a subject, which is dear to our hearts and it is a subject that troubles many. They have an experience and they become attached to this experience and they worry as a result when it is not repeated.

One night someone in the group had asked Hai about a relative who'd just passed to the spirit world. Hai answered the person's question then said the following.

Hai: You must remember that this occurrence, this thing that you call death, this transition, is like a ball you bounce on a wall and it returns to the centre, to the thrower. And so she has bounced on the wall and returned. The duration of the bounce sometimes is slower, sometimes it is faster, shorter in duration, but we all bounce on the wall of life and return. The ball was not thrown way out into the wilderness, it was thrown against the wall that it may rebound and return, yes. So remember this my friends, (smiles) some of you are on the rebound now - but it is nothing to worry about (laughs) nothing to worry about. For it is the nature of the ball to rebound on the wall is it not? This may be of help to some if you put this little parable on your web.

Someone in the group who was amused by Hai's choice of phrase commented:

Q: Notice the diplomacy. Hai says some of us are on the rebound.

Davia was obviously talking to Hai in the background. As usual he couldn't resist a joke. Hai smiled and told us what Davia was saying to him. He said:

Hai: Davia says, "The lucky ones that is - for there are some yet who are bouncing on the wall."