Visitors' Questions during December 2002
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The following are Hai's and other spirits' responses to miscellaneous questions recently posed by visitors to this web site or by personal visitors to our home. If you would like to ask a general question please complete the Question Form or post it in one of the Web Board's forums. If you have a question of a more personal nature please see the Consultations Page. Occasionally, we may ask people who have received responses to personal questions if they are happy to give their consent to posting on this site an extract of the response which they have received if we feel that it could also be of benefit to others.
A happy New Year to everyone from Eileen, Paul, and all the members of the Spirit Group
Due to the present troubled conditions in the world it is not surprising that recent
visitors have wished to discuss the issue of war with Hai and some of the other spirit communicators.
We give below extracts from some of the discussions.
Q: So if they have been called up and feel they have no choice but to kill the enemy or get killed. Would that go against them?
Hai: Well no, providing they act in good conscience. But you indicate a responsibility which we all have to decide whether such an action, such as going to war, is good, is just. It can never be good of course in the fundamental sense. But whether it is necessary, whether it is justified given the circumstances? But we each must ask our own question here with this. It is not enough to say Ďthey called me upí. Tis not enough to say this. We each must bear responsibility for our actions. We cannot point the finger to someone else. We cannot delegate, pass over the responsibility to someone else. They must carry their responsibility, which is a heavier responsibility. For if they order many to their deaths; if they order many to fight; then they must bear responsibility for that authority which they carry with them, with their words, their decisions. But we must each make our decision in good conscience also.
Q: So it would be the leaders who would carry more responsibility when they pass
Q: How would Winston Churchill have been accepted in the spirit world? Because,
although he was a great leader, he did actually order soldiers to kill the enemy to save our
Hai: Yes, there will be a time when wars stop. For, if you think of war, the only logical outcome to war is more war, more unending war, with more sophisticated weapons of war, which you have now available to you. The outcome of this will be the devastation of the earth, if things go on in their present state. Therefore, it is important that your leaders direct their energies and efforts to creating world understanding across all the nations. World respect, world love, across all the nations, for where there is love there will be no war; there can be no war. There can only be respect and love. Therefore, we must put our energies, our efforts into this my friends, not into designing weapons which you have a plenty.
One night another spirit named Gregory spoke to us of the need to influence the future
of the world in a positive way.
Q: Do some spirit people want to look into the future?
Q: Do spirits then try to pass that influence onto the earth plane?
Q: Does this work with our heads of state?
Q: I presume that is going on today is it, with all the troubles at the moment
and the possibility of war with Iraq?
Q: You mean by thinking?
We have now had a number of visits from Thomas who has told us that he spent his last
incarnation as a slave in Alabama. On this occasion he seemed to come through in particular to
relay his good wishes for the season. However, he also had a further message.
Q: How are you?
Q: Will you celebrate Christmas?
Q: Did you celebrate it when on the earth?
Q: Are you happy where you are now Thomas?
Finally, during the month one of our visitors asked Hai why he wanted to communicate
with people in our time and why he wished us to write the book which we are working on.
Hai: We wish to make teaching accessible to others, many others. We wish to make accessible to people of all religion and none. Wish to make accessible in words of your time, in manner, in mode of your time, yes. We wish to reach out with loving heart to people of your day, your time. In reaching out to people of your day, your time, with loving heart, our hearts connect in the beauty of mutual love. Why cannot people reach out? Why cannot people reach out with hearts of mutual love my friends? Why can they not look each other in the eye and find love in their hearts for other person? Why is this so my friends? So much beauty staring at you with eyes. Yet there are many who cannot do this, who do not do this, who will not do this. For they often have preconceptions about other, they often have opinions about other genders, yes? But if they could only be open. If they could only be free of prejudices, of opinions, of distortions. If they could see person for who they are. If we offer person, another person, something positive, a sign, symbol of our own good faith, of our own love for them, of our own wish to work with them in brotherhood. This undermines the seeds of evil. This undermines the seeds of hatred, and revulsion and will bring about a revolution, a transmutation of hatred into love.
Question of the Month
Mandy from London asked the following questions:
Hai: This can vary somewhat. Usually when conception has taken place a spirit will see an opportunity and will link to the feotus, but will not necessarily enter the body at that point, but wait sometime before joining with the physical body. There is no need to join very early, but there is some variation in the actual time when the spirit joins the physical. It is not too important about the actual time and point the spirit joins the physical, because once the spirit has formed a bond with the physical a bond is formed with the natuaral parents also. The actual point which the spirit joins the body is not too important. Its importance can be exagerated. It is important, though, that, once conception has taken place life is viable and new life is starting to form. Therefore, it is important that life is acknowledged as having sanctity. We know that not all life which has been conceived achieves birth in the physical world and there are many reasons for this. People sometimes make difficult decisions. Intent is important, but in principle, once life is conceived it should progress to birth.
Q: Do spirits somtimes enter a body to try out the experience and then leave again possibly to re-enter again later?
Hai: It may be that in the early stages a spirit may enter the embryo and move out later. The bond is still malleable, if you like. It is not fixed. But generally there is no need for spirit to try out the physical body because they would be well aware of what they were entering before they entered.
Q: When does conception actually take place?
Hai: Conception take place when egg meets sperm.
Q: Before it goes into the womb?
Hai: Ah yes.
Q: At what stage would a spirit enter?
Hai: Usually some time after, but once conception takes place a spirit may identify with the egg and the potential for new life.
Q: Is it about seven months before the spirit enters the embryo or earlier?
Hai: It will usually be earlier, but the spirit may come and go a bit while the egg is still developing. But all life is sacred. When conception take place there is potential for life. We must respect this. We must respect this.
Q: It seems then that there is no set time for spirit to enter the womb and in fact it can come and go as it desires?
Hai: Spirit may already have formed a bond with the fertilized egg very early on. There is no fixed point, but as the embryo develops, the association between the spirit and embryo grows stronger and stronger and the potential is there, the potential for a spirit life lived in the human form. When the spirit has embraced the embryo a bond with the mother has formed. This is what I would say to you.
Q: So even if the spirit is not in situ the bond is there anyway?
Hai: Yes. The spirit may enter the womb, may enter the embryo and reside there or it may withraw again, but yet preserve a connection with the embryo and return.
Q: What would happen in the event of a miscarriage? Would the spirit still be attached to the mother, spiritually I mean?
Hai: Well, when there is miscarriiage spirit must return to the spirit lands obviously. But after that it depends on a number of things. Sometimes they may stay in spirit lands, for a time at least. Sometimes they will find another body, for they have the need of earthly experience.
Q: Would the spirit feotus continue to develop in the spirit world as would any other child?
Hai: No, not necessarily. For there has been no life experience whatsoever with the case of a miscarriage and the spirit may have need of a life experience. And so, if this is the case, the spirit may well find another body.
Q: I have always believed that women had the right to abort a child if necessary and that men did not have the right to try and prevent this?
Hai: Well, we know you have circumstances. We know you have difficulties. We know you have trials, tribulations, which you face on the earth plane. For we do not judge. But it is something which must not be undertaken lightly.
Q: Would the physical effects of birth have an impact on the spiritual development of a baby?
Hai: All experiences you have while on the earth plane contribute to your development and to your spiritual development. You cannot separate the two. You are of your essence spiritual beings and you have many experiences while on the earth plane. Some of these affect your physical development and growth, but inevitably, they also impact upon your spiritual development and growth. The two cannot be separated.
Q: So would a baby in the womb be affected by the emotional state of the mother?
Hai: This may occur. Because the physical condition of the mother may affect the physical condition of the daughter or the son while in the womb. But you know we have spoken before of the influence of inheritence, of genetics. We put on this cloak of this body and, as part of this experience, we experience the world in a certain way because of the body which we have incarnated into. But when this life is over we put aside our cloak when we return to the spirit land. Some time later we may reincarnate, rebirth, into another body, another cloak. So we put on a new cloak and experience the world in a different way through this cloak till we put it to one side again.
Regular Question Nights are held at our home in Stockport, England. If
you live within travelling distance why not come along and meet Hai and his
spirit friends. Ask about life in the spirit world and get their perspective
on issues of interest or concern. Question Nights are currently held one evening a month
8.00pm to 10.00pm, cost £3.75, including light refreshments.
If you cannot visit in person you can still pose a question either by completing the General Question Form or by posting your question in one of the Web Board's forums. Please note that questions of a personal nature should be submitted using the Postal Consultation Form which can be accessed via the Consultations Page.